So, Halloween is coming up. Everyone's favorite, candy-coated holiday. Right?
I understand that there are many many things to discussion surrounding the topic of Halloween, and how we celebrate it. Now, I'm not specifically talking about your adult, choice of Halloween costume and how you chose to celebrate. But rather I think we need to talk about the messages we send to kids around this time of year. Take these costumes for example:
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| Here we see a little boy, in a Cookie Monster costume. Ok, nothing wrong with this... |
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| and here we see a little girl in a Cookie Monster costume... |
Why is it that the little girl can't wear the above furry Cookie Monster costume? Is it that she might actually recognizable as Cookie Monster?
Or is it that we have to ingrain the cultural norm of Feminine, Sexual Halloween Costumes to her at an early, EARLY age?
I just really don't understand.
This little girl's costume is not just a problem in the messages it sends about gender norms, but also because of its clear and apparent sexualization.
JUST look at it. The tutu,the defined waist, the cookie placement.
I just really don't understand.
Why is it, that as a society, we feel the need to so stringently enforce gender norms and the sexual preferences that we believe should go along with those norms at such early ages?
And Why, if your little girl wanted to be Cookie Monster for Halloween, because she really likes Cookie Monster, wouldn't you get her the costume that actually looks like Cookie Monster?
You can find these, and other lovely costumes at just about any Halloween retailer. Good Luck.





